Obstacles Don’t Define Us

As far back as I can remember my parents would talk about my “obstacle” There were things I could not do because of it and it caused issued with my speech.  That obstacle was a speech and physical delay that was caused when I contracted Spinal Meningitis at the age of 3 months old.

The story goes that my parents were having a house-warming party in the garage as I slept in my crib.  One of them went to check on me.  I was warm and when they picked me up I was limp as a rag doll.  After rushing me to the hospital they found out I had spinal meningitis.  My parents said I was in the hospital for quite a while.  There is even a story I am remembering hearing a few times that a young airman at the air force4 base would rock me non-stop when my parents were not there.

Growing up I remember being put in “a box” I had difficulty doing things that you needed coordination for i.e. Jumping Jacks.  Also, I had a bad speech impediment.  My family was the only ones that understand for a very long.

Even as a child I was determined to overcome these issues.  I remember “trying” to do jumping jacks.  I looked like a crazy windmill.  But I would continue to practice.  I would do my upper body movement and then my lower body and continue to try to get both sides coordinated.  My speech delay I would go to speech therapy at school and at home, I would just continually practice words.  I felt accomplished when I could say REFRIDGERATOR.  I was so successful in overcoming that obstacle that I had no problems when I joined the Army.

It is said that it was a miracle that I survived that.  Usually, babies that young are not able to fight it But I did.  That was the first of many obstacles that I have overcome.  Some have taken decades but I have done it.  Looking back, I am awe of the obstacles I have overcome. It is only with GOD’s grace and his plan that I can get through the obstacles in my life

Take Care Much Love