Avoidance

In PE Therapy I have learned that a coping mechanism for MST Survivors is Avoidance. As the topic of avoidance has come up over and over again I have realized that avoidance is not only part of my MST coping but also just how I survivor life.

In avoidance, we simply find ways of avoiding having to face uncomfortable situations, things or activities.


Avoidance may include removing oneself physically from a situation. It may also involve finding ways not to discuss or even think about the topic in question.


Avoidance is a simple way of coping by not having to cope. When feelings of discomfort appear, we find ways of not experiencing them.

For me this goes beyond MST. It encompasses all aspects of my life. I
guess because I learned to do this with MST and “it worked” then I do it in all of my life.
It’s funny now that I am aware of avoidance I can see myself actually starting to avoid something. So now that I am aware of avoidance I can process “why”.
I really appreciate this awareness of avoidance so that I can heal and start to face more things head on
To GOD Be The GLORY. Take Care. Much Love